All Posts from October, 2010

Gracefully Rescheduling Dates

October 29th, 2010 | By Jay Ilani in Dating Advice | No Comments »

Sometimes in life, things come up. Important things that cannot wait. So, how do you tell your date you have to reschedule, gracefully? Follow these tips and find out!

1. Give a reason – While you are not expected to explain the whole situation in detail, do briefly touch on your situation to convey that you are not canceling over a trivial matter.

2. Be understanding – Emphasize with the other person. How would you feel if you got excited, for nothing? Touch on your date’s concerns to show you understand them.

3. Always attempt to reschedule – If you like the person and truly regret having to cancel, offer a time in the future to go instead. Abruptly canceling without doing so can send the wrong message. Always suggest an alternative time you two can meet when calling to cancel a date.

Written by Toronto Escorts

Getting the most out of Dating

October 29th, 2010 | By Jay Ilani in Dating Advice | No Comments »

For many people out in the dating scene for some time, dating has become boring, almost mechanical. Gone is that spark and excitement of their first few dates, and nothing bright appears on the horizon. Fortunately, this state of affairs is illusory at worst: you can change this outlook almost immediately and find the magic in dating once again. Here are a few tips to follow.

1. Try out new places – Always go to a cafe or a restaurant? Try a park or a concert for a change of pace. Keep things moving, and never live a day the same as another again!

2. Meet new varieties of people – Always sticking to one scene, or online dating network, to find your dates? Try changing it up! Visit a bar in an unfamiliar part of town. Register a profile on another site.

3. Above all, have fun! – If you start the date feeling jaded, you will likely end it the same way. Adopt a new, positive mindset. Tell yourself you are here to have fun before every date, and see your experience transform to accommodate the new you!

Written by Toronto Escorts

How to get the Most out of Online Dating

October 29th, 2010 | By Jay Ilani in Online Dating | No Comments »

Today, we have several Major Online Dating Networks of varying popularity all vying for our patronage. But, how to we get the most out of online dating networks, with so many options available? There is no one unifying answer, but here is a list of basic principles to help you get the best results.

1. Visit and try several dating networks – Studies have shown major dating sites often have very different user bases. Not every site will have the right people for you. While some sites will charge you for their services, most will have a free trial period for you to sample and make your decision.

2. Do not lose your head – You may see yourself getting a ton of replies almost immediately after completing your profile; while it is tempting to use that as an ego boost, remember that most of those queries were not sent to you alone; the same person sent the same letter to many others at the same time.

3. Do not give up – Dating is a complicated game, and most people are not romantically compatible. Just keep batting, and eventually you will win.

How To Deal with a Stalker

October 29th, 2010 | By Jay Ilani in Men and Women Tips | No Comments »

Many of us, especially Ladies, have experienced stalking. In the modern world full of easily accessible personal information and social networks, stalking is easier then ever. There are many reasons why people stalk, some of which are incomprehensible to the sane. While the mindset of a stalker is truly pitiful, you have every right to protect yourself from their advances.

Your first resort should be a firm, non-negotiable refusal. Do not leave room for interpretation. Never insult the person either; it is more likely to do harm then good. Do not be afraid to hurt their feelings; you are doing worse by leaving them with some hope that their advances will be requited.

If words do not work, do your best to not give the stalker attention, negative or otherwise. Attention is a powerful motivator; even negative attention can validate a lonely existence.

Lastly, if nothing else works, go for the legal solution, such as a restraining order. This is often going to mean headaches for you, but some people simply cannot be reasoned with.

Dating Etiquette in the Modern World

October 29th, 2010 | By Jay Ilani in Dating Advice | No Comments »

Here in the world today, we see many well-developed unspoken rules in dating. While you should allow some flexibility to those rules based on cultural context, you will see your dating life improve if you follow this growing trend.

1. Be punctual – this one is basic common sense. Always be on time, especially if you are meeting the person for the first time!

2. Remember the 3 date rule – if after 3 dates, no “spark” appears, further dating is unlikely to incite romance.

3. Be honest about your intentions – no matter who you are, if you feel it just won’t work, there is no sense stringing your date along any longer then you have to.

4. Split the bill – part of a growing trend in the modern world, this “rule” is most sensitive to cultural context; exceptions certainly do apply based on the person you are with.

Basics of Online Dating

October 29th, 2010 | By Jay Ilani in Online Dating | No Comments »

Online Dating is a very popular concept in our society today. For those still unaware of this growing trend, this is a simple post detailing the basics.

Even today, many still dismiss or scoff at online dating as a lower form of dating, visited by the dregs of society; such attitudes are remarkably common all across the world. Nothing could be further from the truth! Now, online dating is visited by people from all walks of life, from lonely basement-dwellers to well-educated elites, to the elderly and everything in between. It is truly attracting attention from every level and rank of social standing.

Online Dating is remarkably simple: all it takes is to pick a major dating site, fill out a profile with basic information about you, and browse or wait for responses! Anyone can do it. If you are unsure on where to begin, take some time to read Dating Site reviews posted all over the net to help you make your decision.

Growing Trends in Online Dating

October 29th, 2010 | By Jay Ilani in Online Dating | No Comments »

Online Dating is on the rise today, and is becoming more prominent in our society then ever before. What does this mean for us, and our future? What can we expect from this shift in the dating scene, and how can we adapt to the inevitable changes?

Major Dating Networks now count millions in their user base, and that number just keeps on growing. Why is that? Is it because our society is becoming far too busy to pursue traditional dating options as we had in ages past? Or is it simply dating’s answer to the ever-shorter attention spans and the push to go online, where the once-arduous process of getting to know a prospective mate can be reduced to a click of a button and a few paragraphs of text?

Our series on Online Dating here on dnsrule.com will cover this growing phenomenon and provide tips and advice to all seeking to master it.  Read on for Online Dating Tips and Guides.