All Posts in the ‘Dating Advice’ Category

Gracefully Rescheduling Dates

October 29th, 2010 | By Jay Ilani in Dating Advice | No Comments »

Sometimes in life, things come up. Important things that cannot wait. So, how do you tell your date you have to reschedule, gracefully? Follow these tips and find out!

1. Give a reason – While you are not expected to explain the whole situation in detail, do briefly touch on your situation to convey that you are not canceling over a trivial matter.

2. Be understanding – Emphasize with the other person. How would you feel if you got excited, for nothing? Touch on your date’s concerns to show you understand them.

3. Always attempt to reschedule – If you like the person and truly regret having to cancel, offer a time in the future to go instead. Abruptly canceling without doing so can send the wrong message. Always suggest an alternative time you two can meet when calling to cancel a date.

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Getting the most out of Dating

October 29th, 2010 | By Jay Ilani in Dating Advice | No Comments »

For many people out in the dating scene for some time, dating has become boring, almost mechanical. Gone is that spark and excitement of their first few dates, and nothing bright appears on the horizon. Fortunately, this state of affairs is illusory at worst: you can change this outlook almost immediately and find the magic in dating once again. Here are a few tips to follow.

1. Try out new places – Always go to a cafe or a restaurant? Try a park or a concert for a change of pace. Keep things moving, and never live a day the same as another again!

2. Meet new varieties of people – Always sticking to one scene, or online dating network, to find your dates? Try changing it up! Visit a bar in an unfamiliar part of town. Register a profile on another site.

3. Above all, have fun! – If you start the date feeling jaded, you will likely end it the same way. Adopt a new, positive mindset. Tell yourself you are here to have fun before every date, and see your experience transform to accommodate the new you!

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Dating Etiquette in the Modern World

October 29th, 2010 | By Jay Ilani in Dating Advice | No Comments »

Here in the world today, we see many well-developed unspoken rules in dating. While you should allow some flexibility to those rules based on cultural context, you will see your dating life improve if you follow this growing trend.

1. Be punctual – this one is basic common sense. Always be on time, especially if you are meeting the person for the first time!

2. Remember the 3 date rule – if after 3 dates, no “spark” appears, further dating is unlikely to incite romance.

3. Be honest about your intentions – no matter who you are, if you feel it just won’t work, there is no sense stringing your date along any longer then you have to.

4. Split the bill – part of a growing trend in the modern world, this “rule” is most sensitive to cultural context; exceptions certainly do apply based on the person you are with.

Even Old People Do It!

April 22nd, 2010 | By Jay Ilani in Dating Advice | No Comments »

Studies have shown even old people do it! And by “it”, we mean visit dating sites :) . Older people as a group do not have access to as many opportunities for finding dates (such as clubs and bars) as the rest of us, and have turned to the accessibility of online dating networks, with encouraging results. Top Dating Sites have experienced an influx of older patrons and this trend seems to be growing.

This is exciting news for those of us with full-time careers or education who are unable to spend as much time in the nightlife scene as we wish. Dating sites can fill the void of dating options so many of us are experiencing in this fast-paced modern world. If you feel life is catching up with you and you no longer have as much time for yourself, try out online dating and experience the joy of dating once again!